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MALTA : 50 YEARS LATER

Ron & Gemma Meik
return to Malta to celebrate their
50th. Wedding Anniversary


this is Gemma's story.....

Ron and I - and the inlaws, have just returned from a 10 day holiday in Malta.  For Ron and I  it was a sentimental journey to celebrate our 50th Golden Wedding Anniversary.
Ron was in the Navy in those far off days and based in Malta for a 2-yr. term and I went out to join him as a young, very green and blushing bride, first time away from home, Bridport in Dorset. 

I hated every minute of it as I was so homesick, but we had a very kind Captain who sort of 'smuggled' me on board every time they went to sea so I too had a glimpse of the outside world but really that didn't even console me !

How I have changed !!!   

However,
we made several good friends.

The wives gave me my first housekeeping and cookery instructions.  Again in those far off days it was cooking on paraffin stoves - actually quite good!  Washing was also in 'buckets' boiling the clothes , difficult especially for the quite inexperienced when one also includes yellow dusters with uniform WHITES -

Did I really do that !? 

Fortunately there was also a great social life and many meals on board the SEA SALVOR which was the Salvage vessel for the Med.
I guess looking back it really was an adventurous and learning experience which I think has stood me in good stead.
The other Officers were very considerate to Ron when he was on night watch, and did his shift for him so he didn't have to leave his young bride alone at home ...
AHA !

SO WHERE IS MALTA?

Set in the heart of the Mediterranean Sea, half way between Sicily and North Africa, the Maltese archipelago consists of five islands: Malta, Gozo, Comino and two uninhabited islands, Cominetto and Filfla. The size of Malta is about 27 km long by 14.5 km width, taking just over an hours drive between its two furthest points.  After all its a small world isn't it? 

The Islands are only 93kms south of Sicily and 288 km north of Africa. Just a short distance away, considering that some of us drive further than this to go to work. Air Malta is its official airline which hosts flights to a number of European and Middle Eastern cities. During summer, ferry services are available between Malta and Sicily. A trip to Catania (Sicily) taking only three hours. 

A bit of History, a Lot of Sunshine and Plenty of Romance!

Its strategic position at the hub of ancient trading routes meant that nearly every great civilization has had a desire to conquer this Island.  Malta hosts the oldest known structures in the world (older than the Pyramids), with megalithic temples that date back as far as 3800 BC.

We tried to retrace our steps fifty years later and of course drew a blank as Malta no more is a Naval base as in our day but a thriving tourist resort with a very strong currency which was not to our benefit !  We lived in big old houses which families let to the naval families during their stay.

The Maltese people are really lovely and kind and are still the same we found.  Unfortunately we couldn't remember exactly where we used to live in the different areas and although everything has been rebuilt the character and style has not changed. 

They seem to 'merge' if you get what I mean.   The Hotels are everywhere and building never stops, to the Maltese,  all this development spoil the skyline. But of course one can't stop progress.   The Churches are all still magnificent and we went to St. Patrick's in Sliema where all the Masses are in English.
We went to Gozo, a small island about 20 mins. by ferry.....
This tiny island paradise is about half the size of its neighbour, Gozo is greener, quieter and unspoilt. Here you will find picturesque fishing villages, rolling hills, sleepy hamlets with lovely churches, secluded rocky and sandy beaches, along with monuments dating from prehistoric times. The island’s focal point is the capital VICTORIA (Rabat) – named after the Queen, it has an ancient citadel and is a short drive from your accommodation anywhere on the island. Gozo is an easily acquired taste with something for everyone and once hooked, you will return year after year!

Goza has also changed and is HOME to many Brits. who have retired and just love the peace and beauty it affords.
Ron has a friend who has also now retired there and we visited his lovely home.

We also paid a return visit to our Lady of Ta'pinu where it is said our Lady 'spoke' to some children and asked them to pray in the chapel
(which is now is a beautiful Cathedral)

There was a Priest walking around the Church and I spoke to him telling him of my previous connection and he blessed a Rosary I had bought there.
It really was my best day.
If you would like to read a little bit more about
Our Lady Ta' Pinu - Shrine of Gozo click here.
We also invited John Vella and his wife Josephine to our Hotel, Diplomat, for Dinner.

Of course the group were taken to the Blue grotto, etc. which involved getting into small boats which I felt I couldn't risk.  Otherwise I enjoyed most of the trips.

Many Holy Family parishioners will remember 'dear John' who lived in Langley most of his life with his wife Daphne who sadly died a few years ago. John thought he would return to Malta and married a lovely Maltese lady but unfortunately his heart is in the UK -still. 
They have a lovely traditional Maltese home and live with Josephine's mother who is naturally quite old and infirm.  But we found her quite lovely.
John comes back to Langley every year in July as the Maltese Summer is too much for him, so stand by to greet him his many friends.

The weather while we were there was just right but unfortunately we were unable to trace any Sea Salvor ex. officers and wives as they would probably be re-located long since, but at least we tried.
How do we feel now that we have taken fifty years to return to our starting point?
Well, I wouldn't wait another fifty ....
Ron says that would be too soon....

so I guess we shall just thank the good Lord and His blessed Mother for giving us these wonderful opportunities and keep them as fond and dear memories.

Gemma Meik